The best way to raise a failed child 👇
1. They abused him and scolded him whenever he made a mistake and you accompany him. He will master the lie.. and he will not be honest with you about his problems and the pitfalls of his day.
2. They chose everything for him.. from his first clothes, food, and colors of his room to his studies, specialization, and his life partner.. and he will not bear any responsibility after that, as he is waiting for someone to choose for him.
3. Praise his intelligence more than his diligence and quest, so he knows that success is the result of his intelligence and abilities, not his diligence, quest, and forbearance.
4. Always compare him to others.. so he becomes envious, jealous, spiteful, and considers what is in the hands of others.
5. Mention his shortcomings and criticize him in public and front of people, especially in front of his friends or his teacher and teacher... He will lose his self-confidence over time until he becomes empty and hollow
6. Remind him and help him, arrange his room for him, organize his times and appointments, and specify his companions for him... He will remain a duplicate of you and your way of thinking, and his personality will dissolve.
7. If you promised him something, do not die and you can lie to him, and if you made a mistake about him, do not apologize and do not respect his privacy, so search and spy on him without his knowledge on the pretext of your fear for him .. so that he becomes a liar and does not know the value of his promise and does not apologize and does not respect the privacy of anyone in the future and does not seek permission.
8. Teach him that the country is a country of diplomas and that it has no value without access to one of the top colleges, and associate your pride in him and your love for him with his academic grades and not himself... He will spend his whole life without real education or passion and he will not know and will not value himself.
9. Make all his requests answered, and do not tell him no. Do not deprive him of it... so that he does not know the value of money and does not keep what he buys and gives it away easily.
10. Do not ask him to work or earn money until he is 15 years old... until he becomes weak and emaciated and does not know how to deal with society or people.. Psychologically fragile and despairing after how many days of trying.
11. Beating is the best proven and fast method, he will hate you and hate his life and he will live psychologically distorted, and everyone who deals with him can insult him and hit him as normal.
12. Do not teach him his faith and his religion, and that our Lord is the center of his life. Focus on chemistry, physics, mathematics, and medicine, and forget his soul and his afterlife... Leave him to the street, Number One, series, and bad company... They will teach him everything and they will take your educational role.
13. Always treat him as small and do not trust him or his decisions and do not talk to him and discuss him daily... He will remain young and will not be able to express his needs as a human being.
14. Do not ask him what you think of everyone who lives in the house, what are the advantages and disadvantages of each of your brothers, father and mother.. yourself, each of them changes for the better in any way... so that he does not learn to evaluate himself and adjust his behavior...
15. Do not teach him sports and do not develop talent in him, do not read in front of him and do not involve him in voluntary work, let him spend his free time in front of screens and become addicted to electronic games and turn into a cartoon character over time .. and then find him a psychiatrist for treatment There is another topic Yesterday I was going with my eldest daughter Mariam to shop for some things and she had a class on the same day with the teacher Youmna and she said to me by the way, Baba, a Yemeni teacher is my friend and my teacher at the same time...
Also yesterday, Ahmed my son asked that he take an extra class today for the Arabic language with her and he does not like to study with me.
I did not imagine during several months .. the level of Ahmed and Al-Mutasim progress and they can read quickly .. Juana operates counters and has a methodology that measures the speeds of children with them and determines what is appropriate for the child and is characterized by reaching the child’s heart before his mind. She only speaks in classical Arabic
Thank you, God, for our sister, Yumna, for every hour and effort you made with my children and my family... God will benefit you and benefit you.
I am happy with your educational journey, I read her story and my children are part of it
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